Female Sexual Satisfaction: the Case for Post-Play

It’s clichéd. You (speaking to men) finish making love to your woman. You’re reasonably sure from her movements that she’s achieved substantial satisfaction. She’s sweating. You’re sweating. Hearts are racing and mutual smiles and a few tender kisses are exchanged.

Now what? Assuming you don’t hear her husband’s car pulling into the driveway, you stay awhile. Perhaps you stay inside for a bit until nature almost pulls you out all by itself. You lay next to her. If you really want her to look eagerly forward to your next encounter, you’ll cuddle.

But is that enough?

Advanced lovers touch there women after sex, too. You caress her. You move your hands gently over her body. To kiss her breasts, you stroke her thighs. Not with the same, “we’re going to have sex” touch you used a little earlier, but with a “thank you” feel in your hands and your lips. Some women don’t mind you bringing them to orgasm yet again with your hand. Certainly, if you think there’s any question as to her how often or intensely she’s had them, you’ll want to – need to –do this.

There’s another technique that’s based in evolutionary biochemistry that most men do not know. Let me explain the science, and then I’ll tell you what to do with it.

Within a few hours after vaginal ejaculation, certain proteins that are specifically found in semen are detectable in a woman’s blood. Whether those proteins cross into her blood stream through her vagina, or her uterus is unclear, but they’re there.

When a woman achieves orgasm, the cilia – the little hairs that move fluid – at the opening of her fallopian tubes go crazy. Then start suctioning in everything they can, including sperm containing semen. It is not a great leap to understand that if a woman achieves her satisfaction in the presence of semen – your satisfaction – there’s a tremendous evolutionary advantage. That is, a better chance of fertilizing an egg entering or in the fallopian tubes.

Put these two facts together and you have a fantastic sex technique for getting your woman to practically beg for sex... and from you.

After you ejaculate, proteins in your seminal fluid activate a biochemistry, perhaps a neuro-biochemistry, that makes her more sensitive to stimulation and more likely to have an orgasm. In “regular” sex, you stop when you’ve cum. But in this technique, after a brief pause to regroup – you don’t want to step on your own punch line – you continue. Move in and out slowly, but deliberately. Stroke as long and deep as you can, and make sure to press down to contact her clitoris with your pelvis. A small circular motion helps contact.

The biochemistry takes hold and, you shouldn’t be surprised as she starts to respond again. In many women, this post-play provides her with the longest and deepest orgasm of the entire love-making session. It is something she’s never felt before, and has not experienced with any other man. You’re a hero.

Now, two things you have to worry about. First, “Where the hell did you learn that?” might put you in an awkward situation. Have a printout of this blog handy. Second, if your woman is used to having you just roll over and go to sleep, then she may mentally stop herself from seeking any further satisfaction as soon as she feels you finish. It IS okay for you to discuss this with her. Tell her you’re going to try something new that is intended solely for her satisfaction. Again, you’ll be a hero.

One other issue: This depends to some extent on your maintaining at least a partial erection after ejaculation. If you penis shrinks to a mushroom cap after your orgasm, then you can’t do this very well, though manual stimulation – with your hand, as suggested earlier – will still work. But to prevent immediate retraction of your penis, you need to be fully potent.

This technique is mentioned, along with a few others, in my men’s health book detailed below. It’s not a technique guide; I don’t want to mislead you into thinking it is. It’s an overall health guide that will also keep you potent, so you can stay inside of her long enough to drive her to the limit.

Feel free to leave a comment and share your tale of glory.

2nd Edition updated May 2012.

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